TRUE CHANGE!

Ladies, are you stressed out and frustrated alot??? Do you feel overwhelmed and ready for change?
Let me give you some advice: How many times a day do you wish that your spouse, friends, or children would just change? How many times do you try to make that change??? If you are like me then it is probably quite a bit.
Laadies, the only change that we have control over is change within ourselves. The only person that we are responsible for is the change in ourselves.. We cannot control another human being, especially a grown human being(yes, I'm speaking of your spouse). We can lift them in prayer and give words of guidance and even correction but we are not responsible for their process of change, that is between them and God. Yes, there are issues in our lives and families that drive us up the wall and make us want to give up but there is a scripture in the bible that says, We have not because we ask not(James 4;2), you mean it can be that simple, just ask? That is just how simple it is. God is available to bring change in any situation. Most of the time, He will speak to us about change within our ownselves, if it is a situation that needs to be changed or dealt with He will do that too. Bottom line, He(God) brings about the change. even in ourselves, we can not even change ourselves that is also something that God has to do. Our job is to present the situation or circumstance to him in faith and believe that He can and will perform the change.
Every good and perfect gift comes from above, I dont know about you but I believe its good to get along with your spouse and its good raise happy children and its good to have healthy relationships. So instead of trying to change yourself and others stop and ask God to do it for you, ask Him for the grace and wisdom to handle your circumstances and watch him show up. You will find that He wants it more than you.
It's time ladies, to live abundantly, stress free, frustration free. Full of life and love, letting God be God.
1)Recognize that You cannot change anyone but you.
2) Seek God's Word for your situation.
3) Commit your spouse, children, and friends to Him and watch Him establish them for you.
4)LIVE AND LOVE CAREFREE LIVES!